So, after reading the Sinsu Interview I realize that Benji is an arrogent asshole! That was so rude uninviting Sinsu to a party that he had no authority over anyways! Paris seems like she is really nice, and doesn’t think she is too good to talk to us “normal people,” but Benji seems controlling and what a loser fighting with Paris to PREVENT someone from attending a party!

I thought it was really cute how Nicole and Paris were dating the Madden brothers but after reading what Sinsu experienced I bet this was not the first time he controlled a situation, and pissed Paris off.

I met Benji after a Good Charlotte concert a few years ago and asked for an autograph (along with some other people) and he didn’t even look or speak to me, but just signed my poster and looked away. I understand he’s busy, but if he was that arrogant before dating Paris Hilton (one of the most wanted women in the world)… What kind of arrogance did he develope while they were together?

You can do better Paris!

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Sarah from The Real World: Brooklyn always appears pretty cool and put together… That was until her dad called. Apparently there was some sexual abuse at a day care in her past. After that her parents separated and her father started acting “strange” towards her. The phone call from her Dad turns her from someone enjoying their time in the house to a hysterical victim of abuse when she picks up the phone and realizes it is him. She then hangs up and calls her mother for support. Her mother says not to be a victim and to tell him she does not want to talk to him.

At this point in the episode, I am thinking this man, Sarah’s father, was some kind of monster to a little girl, and touched her inappropriately or worse. BUT… we later find out what he did….

When they went camping he only brought one sleeping bag for them to sleep in. Ten years ago she was what, eight or ten? I think for a father to sleep in a sleeping bag with his daughter when she is eight years old, and they are camping is fine, but Sarah called her mother to come pick her up right away from this camping trip.

Listen, my point is that she was about eight. If her mother wasn’t saying bad things about her father, she would’ve believed, like every other little girl, that her father is a hero, and would’ve wanted to speak with him (unless something else happened). I think to not speak to her father for ten years and to just trust her mother that he was a bad guy is giving up her relationship with her father without a valid reason. I understand that now, after ten years of trying to convince people of what happened, she is defensive and probably will never speak to her father again. It’s too bad, maybe if more of her relatives on her dad’s side would’ve listened to her and either tried to figure out what happened or why Sarah thought what happened was so terrible they could have helped her to have some kind (maybe not normal) relationship with her own dad.

I will say I think it is really awesome that she felt so fufilled volunteering to help with those kids and art therapy. I hope it helps her cope, and that maybe one day she can have some kind of dialog with her dad other than argueing about what happened ten years ago.

Erica Ellyson

How bluntly can a contestant lie?

Well in this case it was pretty bold. When Michael first met Erica on Momma’s Boys, small talk with Erica led to her saying she did “commercial stuff”, when Michael asked her about what kind of modeling she did.

In the grand finale though, she revealed to Michael and his mom, the sweet and naive Lorraine, that Erica was (we all know because she’s been saying it at least twice every episode) the Penthouse Pet of the Year 2008.

While that (for one) is true, that’s not the only modeling she’s done. A quick video or image search on Google reveals everything and … more. (Links may contain explicit sexual content that is not suitable for all ages. To see the bad stuff you need to disable the “safe search”)

Either way I think she did the right thing to hold off telling about her past to have a fair chance. We love you Erica!